Saturday, January 17, 2004

Answers for today

Whereas you’ve yet to ask these questions:
The answer is I desire to be with people.
This is probably a need for social recognition, with the intent to influence those around me, while creating friendships and personable interactions. I believe that my core is based on a strong people orientation for I always seem to be meeting and/or enjoying the company of other people.

I do believe I have a good sense of humor, and I usually know when to lighten an awkward or difficult situation, how to amuse and entertain those around me with laughter (though this could be a shield), and I use light conversation to keep people focused on the positive, it is also helpful in identifying those who are not friendly by nature!I honestly feel very optimistic and this is usually considered favorably by those who happen to be around me. My perception is half full, more than seemingly empty. When asked, those who know me say that I do have a way of generating enthusiasm in others and myself, often involving many people who might not be inclined or initially motivated to get involved.

One of my great strengths is my ability to communicate and converse readily, of course with that in mind; I admit that I can talk too much! Whereas I think of myself as a natural communicator, this is often enhanced by my willingness to explore conversations about most any topics with whoever is present. The most common remark made about me is that I am a natural salesman, someone who listens attentively and mirrors back that which is spoken into me. I believe this why I am generally perceived as likeable and approachable, someone who is very sociable in my own assertive and straight forward style.

It is within this style that I seem to be more capable of showing empathy towards the needs and feelings of others, and this draws people to me. Often, even those who do not share my religious convictions, nor my desire for full disclosure, seem to be able to look beyond what they are afraid of within me, and seek to engage me anyway! I see myself as:Enthusiastic about activities and involvements. Somewhat diplomatic with almost every kind of person. I trust that I am a good citizen as well as socially poised and people oriented. I am morally inclined to do the right thing, without being presupposed to having a ready excuse when I fail and/or willingly do what’s wrong. I see myself as a friend, lover, confidant and soul mate!

Maybe not everyone likes me, but I do still try to learn to like everybody.